SO asks 'What are your fantasies?"

[iguana]

When a SO asks "What are your sexual fantasies?", does she want to hear only things involving her? I love her to death, but my fantasies are sufficiently honed to involve rather extreme and different partners...so to speak.

[WestCoaster]

I fell into the trap of telling an ex-SO some of the actual fantasies in my head, without censorship, thinking that she was pretty wild and open-minded.

Turns out, she was right at the limit of her "range", and was thining we were getting too kinky for her tastes. When I opened my mouth, she freaked out! oops. Make darn sure she is receptive, start mild, or toss out a few as a joke first to gauge her reaction would be my advice!